Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Vanity

Not going to lie, some days I like the way my clothes look. Whatever it may say about me, a good outfit can really make or break my day. This morning I stepped out of my building wearing this, saw the newly red tree across the street, stepped on a few crunchy leaves, waved to my crossing guard*, and then smiled for blocks. It's fall! There are leaves and caramel and pumpkins and pashminas and boots!

Two weeks ago I wanted to crawl into a hole and never come out and now I just want to take long walks in my fall clothes. (Though tomorrow I may want to crawl back into a hole. Because that's just how it is sometimes.)

 

Shirt: Brooks Brothers
Skirt: Banana Republic Outlet Tights: Missoni for Target
Boots: Belk?
Belt: Nordstrom
Headband: Loft
Earrings: Not sure.

 

 

*Story for another day.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Things I Should Stop Buying: Argyle Socks (and maybe all socks)


While organizing my winter clothes last week, I had to tackle the issue of my sock drawer. And it is an issue because there is an entire drawer and a half just for my socks and tights. The thing is, I get really attached to my socks. In a borderline mental institution patient type way. As in, I: 



  • "Darn" holes so I can continue wearing them.



  • Have a pair of blue plaid socks from the SEVENTH GRADE that I can't bring myself to throw away.



  • Hold on to a single sock for years, assuming its mate will eventually turn up.



  • Must buy any that have argyle on them.




On that last point, I have 10 pairs so far.









 


I actually thought there would be more. Let's face it, I'm a preppy Southern girl, argyle is in my blood. (I also have two cardigans, two sweaters, one sweater vest, and one pair of tights featuring those classic diamonds.) But maybe the argyle is only part of the problem as the rest of my sock drawer looks like this:







Is that a lot of socks? I'm not sure I'm the best judge at this point.


Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Wednesday Words

"I'm learning little by little that we decide what
our lives are gonna be. Things happen to us.
But it's our reactions that matter."
-Sally Reardon, Felicity

This weekend I discovered that all four seasons of "Felicity" were streaming on Netflix. It is possible that 10 episodes were watched in two days. Felicity's four years of college coincided with my four years of high school. Other than a few stray episodes when Lifetime briefly aired the show, I haven't seen most of the episodes since high school. I wish I could say that watching Felicity's foibles have revealed how much I've grown, learned, and matured in 10 years. And I have. But, I also still identify far too much with a lot of her uncertainty and missteps. Oh well. Still have 74 episodes to go.

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Things I Should Stop Buying: Belts

A few weeks ago, my roommate mentioned she needed a belt to wear with a new dress. I have a few and told her she could see if any would work. She said that would be good since she only has two belts. Cue the sound of a record scratching. Because I have...more than two belts. A lot more than two.


Like, 33. But, the thing is, unlike the cardigans and flats, I will probably not stop buying them. They are all very different and serve different purposes. Some are better in spring/summer and some in winter/fall. Some are skinny and some are wide. Some go around my stomach and some go around my waist. Some keep my pants from falling down and some prevent me from looking like a boy since most tops are too big on account of my barely-there chest. All are most definitely necessary. And now I need to go donate to charity because I'm feeling a wee bit excessive.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Wednesday Words

"Every day I think I believe a little less and a little less and a little less and that sucks."
-Ted, How I Met Your Mother

It has been a long rainy week. As was last week. And possibly the week before that. And the week before that. When Ted said this line on last week's premiere episode, it jumped out at me because the character is such a bastion of hope and romanticism. Granted, he has now been telling the same story for about seven years and it's getting extremely frustrating waiting to discover who the mother is, but to hear even him sound defeated, made me feel a little better. Maybe everyone just has a bit of the September doldrums.

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Rainy Day Rose
Hershey Gardens
Hershey, Pennsylvania

Monday, September 26, 2011

30 Years

Closing out September with one more anniversary, the biggest of them all: my parents' 30th anniversary!


They are just amazing people and I am, for the most selfish reasons, very glad they got together. I don't really believe in soul mates, but I do believe that people can belong together and to each other and I think my parents do. They are such strong individuals but at the same time it's hard to picture one without the other and I think that's probably how it should be.

Happy anniversary, Daddy and Mom!

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Four Years

September is a very anniversary-heavy month apparently as today marks four years of my living in D.C. I truly don't know where the years have gone. And my hands get clammy and I lose feeling in my face because this is the same amount of time I was in college and I just haven't done enough!

I don't have anything profound or even reflective to say but just wanted to acknowledge the day somehow. So this is me. Acknowledging the day. It was also acknowledged in the form of a cupcake from my friend, Gloria, who insisted on buying me this red velvet one from Lavender Moon. I could handle four more years of these.


Now for a few random pictures from four years ago that were never blogged. First, and this should be embarrassing but isn't, a couple shots of my room from home in the middle of the packing madness. It's weird to look at these because though it was my room for nearly 20 years, and it still is really, I barely remember it looking like this.



From the dinner at a now-closed Italian restaurant on my last night. It was the best worst dinner of my life. A waiter that was the bartender because all the other waiters quit. Mike having to order three times because they kept running out of what he ordered. Mom declaring that her "lasagna doesn't have any meat" before realizing she was eating my manicotti. Hmm, perhaps this is why they closed?



Me a few weeks after moving up, outside a fountain in front of the Capitol.


And for comparison, a few weeks ago in Pennsylvania.



I don't know where I'll be in four more years but I can promise there will be a white shirt involved. And cupcakes, too, of course.

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Goodbye, summer

For Christmas one year in high school, my parents gave me a CD changer that held 51 CDs. This enabled me to control my music selection with a remote from anywhere in my room. And from the right angle, the bathroom, too. It was my personal jukebox in the pre-iPod days. There was a small binder with numbered slots to hold liner notes so you'd know which slot held which CD. As a rule, *NSYNC always took the top spots, soundtracks at the end.

The CD changer got the most use in the summer, when I could spend hours lying on my stomach on my purple plaid bedspread, with a small gray chenille pillow bunched up under my chin while I read a book, the cool air from the ceiling vent pouring over me. As a result there are a number of songs that, 10 or more years later, always make me think of air conditioning. There are certain songs that I swear make me instantly cooler, just by memory.

My interest in music started around the seventh grade. I used to think I wasn't allowed to say this because pretty much all the music I listen to can easily be found on MTV (when they played music) or in the Top 40 charts (when they were still printed in the paper.) But that doesn't bother me anymore. More obscure music is great but it doesn't mean it's automatically better. Plus, I just don't think you can easily judge the musical tastes of others because you don't know what a song means to them. Don't know where they are transported to with that opening riff or soothing chorus.

So here is my summer 2011 playlist. For better or worse, there are a number of songs that I won't be able to listen to without thinking of this summer. Of sticky hot days, of rainy days in the office, of long walks in DC, of air conditioning.

Summer 2011 Playlist
Animal - Neon Trees
Hair - Lady Gaga
Call it Off - Tegan and Sara
Answering Bell - Ryan Adams
Power - Kanye West
1000 Julys - Third Eye Blind
Turning Tables - Adele
Knock Down Walls - Tonic
Little Lion Man - Mumford and Sons
Rolling in the Deep - Adele
Constellations - Jack Johnson featuring Eddie Vedder
Try Sleeping with a Broken Heart - Samantha Ronson/Mark Ronson/Alicia Keys
Why I Love You - Jay Z and Kanye West
F**kin' Perfect - Pink
19th Nervous Breakdown - Rolling Stones

Wednesday Words

"He said, 'The key to curves is straightening them out.' Which sounds like basic common sense, but...I don't know. It just kind of hit me that I don't straighten curves as much as hurl myself into them, then curse myself when I crash."
-Sarah Dessen, in a blog post

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